At just over a year old, Twitchit has decided that if she does not like what you are doing, what you want her to do, she's going to screech, loudly. Or cry, either one, it just depends on her "mood". I have to say that the first few times I was like "This is ok, I can handle this" but has the last couple of weeks have passed, it gets more and more frustrating for me. I'm wondering what happened to my loveable, sweet little girl! A good example is from this morning. She had yogurt for breakfast, then toast. I was trying to wipe off her mouth and hands of butter and crumbs, but instead you'd think I was wiping acid on her by her reaction.
She still has her sweet moments, but the tantrums seem to stand out more now. My husband's solution to the tantrum "phase" is to ignore her. Do not give her attention when she's standing there screeching and she'll 'learn' it's not a good method to get our attention or to do and stop doing it. In theory it's a good idea I suppose, but not very practical when your toddler is kicking and screaming while you try and wipe her bum and change a smelly diaper. I also feel bad to ignore her when she's trying to communicate with me but can't, bc she can't talk past dada and mama.
I wondered if it was an attention issue, maybe I was not playing with her enough? So I've increased our playtime dramatically, leaving barely any down time for myself. All this has done is wear me out and not stop the tantrums.
I really think it's a combination of - teething her eye teeth, growing pains, and her inability to be able to communicate her needs to us. So I'll keep struggling through and hopefully, the tantrums will be less dramatic at some point.
I had an idea for a photo montage for my mom today, but Natasha was not in the "mood" so I only got a few, which I'm not 100% happy with. I'll have to wait until Owen is home to distract her or try again after her nap when she's hopefully in a better mood. I'd like to get 1 more of her just sitting about to open the book. I fondly remember the 6-7m age when she was quick to smile, easily amused and patiently enjoyed having her photo done. :D